The Seder meal marks the start of the Passover week (or 8 days) and celebrates the successful exodus of the Jews from slavery in Egypt. Unlike any other holiday I know of except for Thanksgiving, the meal itself is central to the holiday’s meaning and correct celebration. Certain foods (and wine) are necessary and cannot be omitted, and certain others are forbidden and cannot be included, if you are actually observing the holiday—not just having a nice family dinner with some traditional foods. My family tries to observe the holiday, although we do not keep kosher.
The final count of guests is not in yet, but it looks like I’ll be cooking for between 15 and 18 people this year (April 8th). I will be preparing the Seder plate’s ceremonial foods and making all the courses except for the matzah ball soup, to be made by my brilliant brother. (As I noted
here, our recipe uses whole matzahs that make al dente balls, not the fluffy, tasteless monstrosities made with matzah meal one is often served in restaurants.)
I’m curious what others are doing for the optional portions of the meal—I’m not talking about the Charoses or the horseradish, although good recipes for those are very welcome. As a sidebar, I will say that in my family, we always ate the horseradish (the bitter herb we eat to remind us of the suffering of our ancestors’ slavery) as slices off the root. We provide prepared ground horseradish, both white, and for the real wimps, red, but by us, real men and women eat the root straight up.
My menu for the dinner portion of the evening:
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Hard-boiled eggs with the salt water (reminds us of tears) left over from the telling of the Seder story (this is traditional if totally unnecessary when the rest of the meal will have another 5,000 calories)
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Aunt Louise’s gefilte fish paté (recipe to be posted soon—absolutely awesome and way better than virtually all other g.f.)
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Chicken Soup with Matzah Balls—’nuff said
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Entrée is always hard because everyone is getting full already. My grandmother at this point would serve two meats, one beef and one chicken or capon. I have done something similar, but I have regained my sanity in recent years. With a few folks in the family no longer eating red meat, I will do the Silver Palate’s
Chicken Marbella, much beloved by my son, and a great dish to do ahead that can reheat. I’m thinking simple steamed
asparagus, although other suggestions very welcome, for something green and spring like that I can do quickly. Finally, I must do a
potato because there are those who would miss it too much if I don’t. I usually do roasted, but the timing is difficult because I never know what time we will get to start eating—it depends on how long we take doing the non-meal portion. Any thoughts? My stove has only 4 burners and one oven, plus I have the microwave, a toaster oven, and a large electric skillet, if need be.
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Dessert is my
hazelnut torte plus various dark chocolate-covered fruit thingies sold at Passover. I’d love to have the time to make my own chocolate-covered orange peel, which I did for holiday gifts in December, but I don’t think I’ll get to it. My sister-in-law will bring a flourless chocolate cake because we can never have too much chocolate in my family.
Questions, suggestions, corrections, and shared menus, please!