MAG,
There's this guy in Oak Park, Jim Matthews, who teamed up with a chef to hold a series of seminars entitled What Goes with What, focusing on Wine and Food pairings. The Wife and I took the class (twice: slow learners), and I was impressed with Jim's wine knowledge, his openess to other people's tastes and interpretations, and his boundless enthusiasm. His site is at
http://orik.com/wgww/guys.htm, and he offers the kind of in-home sessions you're looking for.
Hammond
"Don't you ever underestimate the power of a female." Bootsy Collins