I'm glad I jumpstarted the conversation, and don't think my comment deserved to be dismissed as BS, nor do I think I generalized. I was very specific. Anyway, in no way did I want to discourage people from attending an Outstanding in the Field event, or buying someone's ticket. I think the events are really well run, and I think I was pretty clear in my original post in acknowledging that it is a different experience from a restaurant, and that there are a lot of variables at work that affect the final take-away. The Louisville meal I had - food, location, the whole package - was one of the best dining experiences I've ever had. (And as far as paying the farm and directly funding the operation goes, this was a hobby farm owned by the same art collector that owns the 21C Hotel in Louisville, so take that as you may).
I was just expressing my disappointment that the Nashville meal was, well, a disappointment, given that it set us back $500 or whatever, plus getting there, staying there, and all those extras. Maybe they were struggling with stuff I didn't see (weather was not awesome), maybe it was the chef, maybe there were other invisible variables. I know that OitF is by its very nature different from night to night and location to location, and for some the potential for hit or miss is less of an issue than the big picture event. But for us the particular experience was off enough that I wasn't comfortable gambling on the next one, and I was not expecting that. I may very well change my mind down the road, because like I said at the beginning, I don't have a problem with the organization itself.
In the case of Charleston specifically, when the tickets went on sale the chef/restaurant hadn't even been announced yet, so there's gamble number one, and a big one at that. I've since looked up the chef/restaurant, and while I'm sure it could end up a home run, I think I made the right decision to skip the table meal and spend the time/money somewhere else in Charleston that night. We'll see, since we'll be reconvening with several friends there after our different but concurrent dining experiences.