Sorry about the delay in responding, just noticed this thread. Yes indeed, that was us, though the young fellow next to Molly was the BF from Oak Park, and not my male progeny (Gabe/astrozombie).
I'm on record as liking La Bruquena and was a bit surprised at the almost gleeful virulence of Curlymans' attack. Although his comments about liking plantains, and being able to get better food "down the street" imply some knowledge of PR cusine, his confusing creole and cajun cooking and bemoaning the lack of spice suggest maybe this isn't the case. Maybe he was referring to COCO across the street where they serve "new" Puerto Rican cusine including mofongo with crabmeat and mango relish (which kind of misses the point of mofongo if you ask me), it's certainly more Bocaesquue. Anyway, Pr cusine is typically homey, warming comfort food, but it's not meant to be spicy. The young woman who recommended LaBruquena said "it's the kind of food that puts you to sleep when you get home", and I think that nails it pretty well. To me that's not a bad thing (when in the right mood), but clearly not what the CurlyOne was looking for.
I tend to like straight forward ethnic cooking, without pretension or unnecessary embelishment and La Bruquena suits me fine. I like their Mofongo con carne frita (the stuff in the wooden chalice), bistec encobollado and chuletas . Then again, I'm likely to find myself considering a trip out in lousy weather for a bowl of soup at Seven Treasures,Some chicken boti (Khan or Naan),bbq pork and eggs from Hong Kee,fried pork chops from Dong Ky , a steak burrito from La Pasadita,tips from Lems or Honey 1, a char polish, Harolds, a Burek, Kachapuri,pork chop sandwich,frontier chicken roll (Bismillah) or some other similarly funky foodstuff. This kind of food connects directly to my brainstem, releasing shoals of endorphins, lighting up my dopaminergic pathways and leaving me (usually) deeply satisfied. If I want shortribs I'm going to Manny's, not Boca, but I understand not everyone is wired up this way.
Like this simple food or not, it's hard to imagine actually loathing it as Curly seemed to hate the food at La Bruquena (maybe he just thought he'd be funnier and more engaging by being critical...I actually thought "come for the drinks, leave for the food" was pretty good). On the other hand it's not hard for me to understand how someone who would choose Boca as his favorite place might not like La Bruquena at all (and vice versa I might add). You only have to look at the crowd at these two places (and for La Bruquena I don't mean the kuhdos, but the mostly neighborhood people who have kept the place going for nearly twenty years) to see that they appeal to polar extremes of the dining out crowd.
Despite the mixed reviews, I enjoyed the show and we all got quite a kick out of being on TV. I still like La Bruquena (and COCO)and plan on going back soon. I think I'll pass on Boca though.
Lacking fins or tail
The Gefilte fish
swims with great difficulty.
Jewish haiku.