Thanks to everyone on this thread for their suggestions and thorough reviews/evaluations. I just got back from a long weekend in New Orleans, and with the suggestions of the people on this board, I am convinced NOLA is one of the best food cities in the world, possibly #1 in the US.
Though it has been said upthread, I can't reiterate this enough: Go to Commander's Palace. Seriously. I headed out to Commander's with my girlfriend for a Saturday night (Made a reservation 2 weeks in advance, even then they only had 6pm or 9pm). I was pretty excited, and when I got there I immediately felt like the anticipation was warranted. The staff was warm and friendly, and they led my girlfriend and I through the kitchen (felt like the scene in goodfellas) to our table, and every single staff member we came in contact with made eye contact with us and said "welcome in." Charming.
As was advised by everyone here, I wore a full suit and tie, though there were many in the restaurant who were wearing less formal clothes. Honestly, unless you break out in a rash with formal wear on, I would recommend doing it up. I am certainly the furthest thing from a Southern Gentleman, but I did my best impersonation of one. For some reason it just felt right in this place, and I think that the staff does notice as someone said upthread. Not sure if that's why we got amazing service, but we most certainly did. All the little details that I don't even think about were attended to by our waitstaff, they were friendly and helpful without being pushy or smothering. The decor of the interior is fantastic, the courtyard section is also beautiful, and the history of the place as told by our waiter was interesting and all added to the mystique that is Commander's Palace.
Food was fantastic. I was disappointed that my girlfriend didn't want to get the tasting menu (the entire table needs to be in agreement if you are doing the tasting menu), but since the turtle soup and bread pudding souffle were not on the tasting menu and I really wanted to try these, I wasn't that upset about it. I think I made the right choice.
Started off with appetizer of crawfish gnocci:
Excellent start - loved the flavor of the crawfish with the spices and cheese of the gnocci, just the right amount of heat (I like it hotter, but probably not necessary)
We both then went on to the turtle soup, which was brought to us at the exact moment we finished our appetizers. Accompanied by delicious fresh baked french bread, this was one of the highlights of the meal, I recommend everyone try this dish:
Totally unique flavor, hearty but not too rich. The swirl you see is sherry which the servers pour right at the table, it gave the dish an added complexity that I really enjoyed.
My entree was the softshell crab:
The crab itself was perfectly fried - crispy but not oily or heavy. The accompanying accoutrement were also a good compliment, not overshadowing the crab flavor. I forgot what was in the sauce, but it was really delicious. I sopped it all up with bread after I devoured the entire thing way faster than I should have. As I sat there watching my girlfriend eat the rest of her entree, I cursed myself for not taking my time.
My special ladyfriend's entree was the duck (med rare) with foie gras stuffing and fried sweet potato strips:
I only had a taste of this, but what a taste it was. The duck was super rich, and when you add the foie gras stuffing, oof. Avoid this if you can't handle decadence. As they say in New Orleans, "if it's worth doing, it's worth overdoing."
And finally dessert, the bread pudding souffle with a whiskey cream sauce:
This picture doesn't do it justice, I should have also gotten a pic of it after "opening the top." The souffle comes to the table fresh from the kitchen, then the waiter punctures a hole in the middle with a spoon and then sprinkles the whiskey cream sauce inside it / over it, asking you to tell them when its enough. I wish I had asked if they could have left the sauce at the table. This was an amazing dessert, the whiskey cream sauce isn't too thick and not overly sweet, but it is very boozy, so maybe not the best if you don't like alcohol. Luckily I do, and love whiskey, so really appreciated it. The texture was also very interesting, the top is like a fluffy turnover/popover while the bottom of the dish was more like bread pudding.
I didn't take pictures of our cocktails, but they were also quite good. I went with the Sazerac (the official cocktail of New Orleans), which was great. My girlfriend got some sort of purple drank martini which I made the mistake of forgetting to try, and a glass of wine which she said was delicious and suprising since most wines that are by the glass only tend to be garbage. Our total bill came out to be 147$ before tip, which I think was really not that bad since we had an appetizer and drinks and were stuffed.
The other places we went in NOLA were also delicious - po boys at Johnny's and Napoleon house, crawfish boil, beignets and cafe au lait at cafe dumonde, and late night burgers and chocolate cherry freeze at camelia grille, Everything we ate at Cochon Butcher. However, our Commander's Palace meal was something special, and I'll probably try to go back here everytime I'm in the Big Easy from now on (which I hope is frequently).